As our parents get older, they often face challenges like joint pain and arthritis, making everyday tasks harder. Simple activities like tidying up, personal grooming, and even managing incontinence can become painful and exhausting. Many elderly people accept these issues as part of life and may not realize the impact on their home and relationships. An untidy home, lapses in personal hygiene, the smell of urine, and unpredictable behavior can make it less inviting for visitors. Over time as these issues worsen your parents might not notice the worsening smell or clutter but you will and so will your parent’s friends and as you all reduce your visits your parents might not understand the connection. When they notice they’re getting fewer visits, they may feel confused, sad, abandoned and neglected, which can worsen their physical and emotional health. The joy they once experienced from family visits diminishes, leaving them feeling lonely.